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In this stunning coming-of-age novel, award-winner Miriam Toews balances grief and hope in the voice of a witty, beleaguered teenager whose family is shattered by fundamentalist Christianity
"Half of our family, the better-looking half, is missing," Nomi Nickel tells us at the beginning of A Complicated Kindness. Left alone with her sad, peculiar father, her days are spent piecing together why her mother and sister have disappeared and contemplating her inevitable career at Happy Family Farms, a chicken slaughterhouse on the outskirts of East Village. Not the East Village in New York City where Nomi would prefer to live, but an oppressive town founded by Mennonites on the cold, flat plains of Manitoba, Canada.
This darkly funny novel is the world according to the unforgettable Nomi, a bewildered and wry sixteen-year-old trapped in a town governed by fundamentalist religion and in the shattered remains of a family it destroyed. In Nomi's droll, refreshing voice, we're told the story of an eccentric, loving family that falls apart as each member lands on a collision course with the only community any of them have ever known. A work of fierce humor and tragedy by a writer who has taken the American market by storm, this searing, tender, comic testament to family love will break your heart.
"Miriam Toews has written a novel shot through with aching sadness, the spectre of loss, and unexpected humor.... It might seem an odd metaphor to use about someone who has authored such a vivid, anguished indictment of religious fundamentalism, but Miriam Toews writes like an angel." -David Rakoff, author of Fraud
"Nomi Nickel is a sassy 16-year-old whose mother and sister have bolted from their Mennonite community, leaving Nomi with her off-kilter father in a repressive town where rebellion is severely punished." -O, The Oprah Magazine
"Miriam Toews's brilliant third novel, A Complicated Kindness...is told in Nomi's cocky, brooding voice." -New York Times Book Review
"There have been a lot of Holden Caulfield knockoffs since 1951, but few authors have been as successful as J.D. Salinger in channeling adolescent angst in a way that's as charming as it is profound. Miriam Toews hits that elusive mark with her new novel. In fact, A Complicated Kindness just may be a future classic in its own right." -Philadelphia Inquirer
"At times [Nomi is] all bravado and sardonic wit regarding her faith, but beneath that is a 16-year-old who's spent sleepless nights praying for her family's salvation. By way of Jesus Christ or John Lennon, she's never quite sure." -Ruminator Review
"In Toews's canny hands, Nomi is as vivid and exasperating as any teenager running amok." -Seattle Times
"The wry 16-year-old, trapped in a tiny Mennonite community in southern Manitoba, earns readers' sympathy and adoration from her first angst-drenched rage." -Bloomsbury Review
"Offering incisive reflections on life, death and Lou Reed, the black-sheep Nomi is clearly wise beyond her years, and her voice is unique. The road to anywhere else may be rough for her, but her angst-ridden journey is unforgettable." -People Magazine
"A work of fierce originality and brilliance."Reviewed by Schmadrian, 2009-10-22
Sometimes the jacket blurbs get it right.
This is a gem of a book. (I can't bring myself to call it a
'novel'. Maybe 'slices of fictional memoir' is how I'd label it.)
Its narrator's voice is stunning, absolutely authentic, unfailingly
truthful, bearing all the insight -and ignorance- that all great
taletellers possess.
Being staggered by an author's skills, their chutzpah, a
singularity of expression...these are what I hope for every time I
sit down to read a new offering. And I was repeatedly staggered by
Ms Toew's 'A Complicated Kindness'. But I was never patronized, I
never felt that the first-person narrative got precious, or
self-involved; the teenaged perspective of Nomi Nickel rang true,
and was expressed as cleanly as if you were listening to the gal
share her story on a bus downtown, or a cross-country train, or in
a booth at a diner.
Phenomenal.
(Personal rating: 9.5/10)
ShiftlessReviewed by Jennifer Allison, 2009-06-14
I was really hopeful about this book, because I didn't know
anything really about Mennonites or Manitoba and I was interested
in both. But it was disappointing. Maybe it's reflective of the
nature of the place, but these people are just kind of wandering
around, and I really lost interest in them in a hurry. I did make
it all the way through...I had taken it on vacation with me and was
determined to read it to the end. But it left me with a real sense
of dullness.
Also, what is up with the annoying trend of not using quotation
marks? Maybe it makes a statement in some avant-garde writing
sense, but to me it just seems sloppy.
Why is this considered "great"?Reviewed by Susan L. Anderson, 2009-05-18
As a life-long reader of almost all types of fiction and
non-fiction (no horror please) I am disappointed with this "high
rated" book.
So far I am on page 60 and find it very hard going. I have not
found any of this interesting. Maybe it could be because I grew up
in the "Bible Belt" and later lived in that area for awhile as an
adult. I've met people that lived such lives as this book, so have
no desire to continue reading about them.
Since this book is for one of two book discussion groups that I
participate in, I shall finish reading the book, but I shall have
to really push myself. It has no appeal at all.
As the ole saying "So many books, so little time", there are dozens
of books waiting that I want to read and should be enjoyable. At
this stage of my life (I'm 65+) I like realism, thrillers, escapism
and novels that end where people have grown and are doing well in
their lives.
a sad story :(Reviewed by tvandbookaddict, 2009-02-28
A Complicated Kindness is a very well written book that I found to
be very, very enjoyable.
Some parts were kind of slow but overall it was an interesting and
unique story. I felt horrible for the way Nomi's life was going and
I understand why she'd want to leave that town of hers like her
mother and sister did. This girl is NOT happy and it makes the
reader soo sad :( You'll find yourself cheering for her and wanting
her to get out of that town and just run and never stop.
You are going to despise her uncle, so be prepared to hate one of
Miriam Toews characters with passion.
You DON'T want to miss this book so go check it out.
-tvandbookaddict.blogspot.com
Worth readingReviewed by JKC, 2008-05-30
While the main character in the book, Nomi, has a more difficult
life than many, her story has a universal quality to it. It is
beautifully told, beautifully written, sometimes excruciatingly
real.
Her family and her community leave her to grow up by her own wits -
they love her but they are too self-involved and oblivious to
notice her, and they simply don't have the tools to help young
people cope in the world. So she goes about figuring it out on her
own, primarily in search of someone who will just pay attention to
her.
Toews has created in Nomi a painfully real character, one who is a
victim of circumstances but also recognizes that she would be free
to make choices if she had it in her to do so.
I highly recommend this story to both readers and writers.